Life With an Alcoholic: Are You an Unaware Caregiver?

You just realized what’s been happening for the last nine months. First they were hiding the booze, but now you’re the one stowing bottles behind the towels in the hall closet. They were lying to you about how much they were drinking, and now you’re lying to him about how you’re feeling. Alcohol has become more important to them than both physical and emotional intimacy, and you know what?

Same for you.

Your life revolves around the anxiety over what state your partner is going to be in when you get home, and dealing with it when it inevitably goes badly. The…